You might have noticed a bit more poetry on this blog of late. There’s a reason for this.
If I’m to be brutally honest, these past four years I haven’t been much of a writer. My last novel came out in late 2012, and since then — aside from the posts, vignettes, and poetry on this blog — I’ve only written one short story.
A lot happened to us in those four years. All of our parents died which meant funerals and family strife and estate stuff. We invited a young woman in need to stay with us for a year while she reestablished herself. I had an emergency appendectomy and my wife had an emergency cholecystectomy. Our only car died and needed to be replaced. I grew deathly sick of my job and tried to switch careers. Not all of it was bad (we paid off the house, and for our 30th anniversary we bought a classic sports car), but all of it, even the good stuff, sucked up a lot of time and energy, and brought a great deal of stress into our lives.
All of which sounds like a bunch of excuses and, for a long time, I viewed them as such. Now, though, I see them as reasons.
Am I splitting semantic hairs? Perhaps, but hear me out. (more…)
Man, the tool maker.
We have changed, she and I.

